Nerdlets, I think the best way to build confidence when you are approaching someone is to have a theme song playing in your head. You know, that one song that makes you feel like a badass, like the most attractive person in the world. Be it “Eye of the Tiger” or “I’m Sexy and I know it” or whatever, everyone needs a song that makes them puff out their chests, walk with confidence, and not care what anyone thinks.
I have two main theme songs, and I have been known not only to sing them in my head on or after the approach, but also to dance and sing them as loud as I can in the car. My first is a “Portion for Foxes” by Rilo Kiley. It’s just got the right beat and the right words, and it makes me feel so damn good!!! Have a listen:
I also really love “How to Be a Heartbreaker” by Marina and the Diamonds. Seriously, who doesn’t feel like a bad ass after listening to this song:
We all have songs that make us feel awesome, so What are your theme songs?